Returning to the body count topic, asking this question about your wife also puts your relationship in jeopardy. If she has dated more than a few men and assumes that you would be shocked if she tells you, she may fabricate a story, which is obviously not what you want in a partner.

If she confides in you, you might never be able to handle the reality. You really don’t need something trivial to overshadow your relationship if it’s going well and everything between you and your wife is perfect. My man, let sleeping dogs lie.

The body count question unquestionably belongs in the top five of any list of facts that have no influence on the lovely relationship or marriage pleasure you seek.

That’s how unimportant it is.