It’s really quite easy; how does her body count suddenly impact all of your favorable feelings about her if you believe she is kind, smart, intelligent, and enjoyable to be around?

It is acceptable to inquire as to whether any abortions have taken place. Given that you are or plan to be serious with this person, the question is appropriate and merits an answer, just as women do when they inquire about your past relationships or whether you are the parent of any children.